Find Quality Single Black Men In Your Grocer’s Freezer

Aug 20, 2011 by Dr. Royce Brothers

Ladies, I know you think you can find all of the quality single black men at the club, but that is definitely not the case. I’m sure you have met your share of losers there. You know the type. The type of brother that slides up next to you while you are at the table with your girls and whispers some lame line in your ear like, “Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?” You know the slimy looking brother with the tarnished gold tooth in the center of his raggedy mouth. The type of brother that buys you a bottom-shelf drink and thinks you’re going home with him.

Well if you are sick and tired of meeting these types of trifling brothers that pack the clubs every weekend, then maybe you should try something different. Now I know you might think I’m going to suggest you go to one these “networking” parties or mixers like First Friday or Second Tuesday or Third Saturday, but you’re wrong. These types of functions are billed as professional networking events that can be used to meet and socialize with prospective business contacts, but in reality, they are merely a means for the group of guys who organize these events to make money and meet woman.  You will more than likely find that same trifling brother with the tarnished gold tooth that was harassing you at the club is part of this group of guys who organized your local First Friday event.

No the place I’m going to suggest you go to meet quality single black men is a place you already attend regularly. You may go every two weeks or as little as once a month, but it is a place that we are all pretty familiar with and is in close proximity to our homes or apartments. The place I’m referring to his your local neighborhood grocer. The supermarket, the grocery store, Whole Foods, Trader Joes, whatever you want to call it. I know what you’re thinking, “this brother’s crazy!” But pause. Take a minute to mull it over.  Consider this, if a brother is shopping in a grocery store nine times out of ten he must have his own place, right? He’s already got your buddy with the witty one liners beat. You can tell by the types of items he has in his cart if he can cook. If you peek in his cart and all you see are frozen pizzas and bags of Lays then he probably doesn’t practice the culinary arts.  Finally, if he is grocery shopping and has his own place then that means he must have a job or some type of incoming. You can also make one other assumption by the type of items he has in his cart. Depending on the  food he buys you can tell if he is well to do or if he is just getting by. For instance, if you notice he has things like steaks or shrimp or even name brand cereal than you can deduce that he is probably sitting pretty comfortably to afford such luxurious food stuffs.

So whenever you get tired of that same club scene and wish to find quality single black men, bypass the club and make a bee-line to your local supermarket. You won’t regret it.