Three More Entirely Different Stroke Strategies To Bedding Black Single Women
It’s your non-professional man of the evening, even though I am working in a professional capacity, hence the name, Royce, but you can call me Doctor. Good evening to all of you brothers and fine gentlemen of other hues that might be interested in the paradisaical bliss that is black single women’s love. As promised I have returned to betroth upon you three more strategies to gain entry into this secret garden that is a black woman’s bed. In my previous article, Three Stroke Strategy to Bedding Single Black Women we discussed (1) catching the black woman’s eye, (2) the gift of gab, and (3) the art of flirtation. Once you have perfected these three key strategies you can move on to the next three important maneuvers.
1. Once you caught a black woman’s eye, charmed her with your mouth piece, and showed her how interested you are by flirting you can move onto the next step I like to call, the Art of the Woo. Not be confused with the Wu, which consists of the RZA, GZA, Raekwon the Chef, Ghostface Killah, Inspectah Deck, U-God, Masta Killa, the M-E-T-H-O-D Man, and the late Ol’ Dirty Bastard. No, in this instance I’m referring to the Woo, or the ability to seek favor, attention or love from the opposite sex. The Woo is a lost art these days, but to become a quintessential lover of single black women, you have to incorporate it into your play book. The Woo is what will set you apart from any other guy who might be buying for a particular female’s attention. Now I know what you’re thinking, “man do I have to give her flowers and shower her with gifts?” Yes and no. It never hurts to give a woman flowers and if you have an inside track it can be one of the simplest things you can do, but that’s for another article. The Art of the Woo is simpler than that. The Woo can be something small like listening and paying attention to the woman, and letting her now you value what she’s saying. It can also mean making her feel special and like she is the only one that matters when you are with her. This one can be a little tricky, especially if you are one of those brother’s with ADHD or can’t control his gazing eyes. There are several techniques you can use to show her you are listening and paying attention to her. Staring at her forehead is one and nodding to show interest. You can repeat some of the key points in her conversation so that they are easy to remember. This can also come in handy when you are trying to find a special gift for her because women constantly talk about things they like or that they are interested in, giving you clues to things they may fancy.
To show them they are special, show some chivalry. Open the door for them, pull out their chair, or walk on the outside of the sidewalk to prevent her from being splashed by mud or hit by an unyielding vehicle. A great philosopher, Neyo, once proclaimed this was the year of the gentlemen. So show it in your dress and your actions. The most important part of the Woo, is always, always, let her know you are thinking about her. You have so many ways of doing this these days that take little to no time at all; text, Facebook, Twitter, but to take the point home and really wow her, send her a nice card with a little handwritten note inside that expresses that you are thinking of her. The Woo aided by the Wow will get you that much closer to your goal.
2. The Wow leads me to this next strategy which is trying something new. Women like adventure, intrigue, and suspense. You can’t get this if you are always going to the movies or dinner at the local Japanese Steakhouse where the other hundred miserable couples sit in groups of twelve in front of a hot, roaring flame watching a guy flip shrimp tails in his hat. No, in order to make an impression and stand out from the rest of the pack you have to be extraordinary. How do I do this, you ask. Easy. Find out what type of popular activities are in your area, things you might have considered trying, but have never done. For example, if you live in California take her to get surf instructions at the beach. You can sign up at all type of deal sites like Groupon, LivingSocial, or Bloomspot and get a voucher for surf lessons for two for like $60 bucks. You could turn it into an all day affair, pack a little lunch and spend the day at the beach. This will also give you a chance to check her out in a bikini. If you aren’t fortunate enough to live near water, try a festival, wine tasting, anything that is out of the norm that will wow her and make her feel special because you showed her something new. This will earn you credits in the bank that will add up to that ultimate withdrawal.
3. After effectively wooing and wowing black single women, and introducing them to things they may have never experienced before in past dates, you have positioned yourself in the area I like to refer to as the front row. Basically, if there were any other guys who she may have had on her radar you have successfully moved them to the back of the line or in the nosebleeds (to keep with the seating analogy) and you are the sole occupier of the number one spot, the front row or first base for all of you Blackjack enthusiasts. This is the perfect time to institute the next strategy, the cold shoulder and surprise. After your adventurous and intriguing date, take some time to reflect and if possible cultivate some other leads, if you are interested in more than one woman. Once she calls, apologize for not calling, say you were busy with work or something, but you have been thinking about her nonstop and would love to get together again. Between the phone call and your next date surprise her with something that you took note of her mentioning during one of your conversations. It could be a copy of a book or a CD, anything that shows you were paying attention, but not something too expensive that would cause her to think you are trying to buy her affections. Have it gift wrapped and give her a quick call to tell her you have something for her, tell her you’re in the area, and you would like to drop it off to her at her job. Flowers could work in this instance, but to show you are a good listener and pay attention to what is special to her, it has to be something personal to really hit home. Showing up to the job also allows you to build allies with her co-workers which will be instrumental in completing your objective. The U.S. never goes to war without some form of allies. Neither should you, when you are on your quest to bed black single women or any other women for that matter.
From this point on, it’s up to you to make your stand (don’t make it be your last like Custer, if I can stick with the military analogies) in the bedroom. These sure fire strategies will definitely get you there, but in order to stay you have to perform well. May I suggest Kegel exercises? For more information and advice keep your ear to the Black Luv Fest grindstone. Cheers!
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